Showing posts with label tips and tricks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tips and tricks. Show all posts

Monday, August 27, 2012

Taking the First Steps

Last week I shared some tips to starting your own handmade shop online -- some practical, logistical tips and tricks to getting started.

And aren't those practical steps easy to follow? Just check them off, one, two, three.

But so often, what stands in our way of dreaming big and making that dream a reality is something far less practical and tangible.

It rests inside of us, in our hearts, deep down.

Fear.

Fear of failure, of embarrassment.

Fear that you or your dreams aren't good enough.

Do have those fears? Well go get them. Dig deep down, pull them out...

AND SQAUSH THEM!


We know you can! And we want to help!

What stands in the way of opening a shop? Tangible and intangible...I want to know!

Faith put a call out for questions last week -- we really do want to know what questions you have to provide direction to what we share here on Sashes. 

Ask away -- we're listening!

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

We're planning for you.

We've got plans.


We are putting together content that we hope will encourage, inspire, and equip you to continue (or start!) using your creative gifts to glorify God and bless your families and the people around you.

We're in the planning stages now for the coming months, and because we want to tailor our content to your needs, we'd love to hear from you.

So comment below, or email us at sashestothemerchants at gmail dot com, and let us know what you want to know.

Here are some ideas to get you thinking:

  • Questions for businesswomen 
  • Marketing how-tos
  • Tips on work-life balance
  • Practical organizational help
Ask away!

Monday, August 20, 2012

So You Want to Start a Shop

If you're anything like me, creativity is in your blood. It courses through you and you have a desire to just get it out there. To share it. To use your hands, make a mess, and step back and take in your handiwork.

For me it's jewelry. I started making jewelry early in college. A friend and I learned together, and we'd spend hours pouring over beads, laying them out, and putting them together in fresh new ways.

I opened my shop the summer of 2010. People open handmade shops for lots of different reasons. For me, my personal jewelry box couldn't handle anymore bits and baubles, but my desire to create was as strong as ever. So I thought I'd share.

So you want to start your own shop? There are a few things to consider to make sure you're starting out on the right foot!

Why do you want to open up shop?
First and foremost I'd encourage you to ask yourself "why." Do you simply want some extra spending money to finance your hobby? Do you want to eventually do this full time? Do you want to share your passion with others?

Or do you see everyone else doing it?

Of course, I'd caution against opening a shop because it's trendy or it seems like every blogger has one these days.

If you genuinely have a desire to work hard promoting your passion, then jump on in.


What will you sell and what makes it unique?
Decide what you'll focus your attention on. Will you make just a few things in a variety of colors? Will you expand your line into lots of different areas? Will you sell made-to-order items or will you have everything ready to ship?

I started out making and selling one thing, and now my items look very different. It's a-ok for your style evolve as your shop does, but thinking about these things will make the process much easier.


Where will you sell?
There are lots of platforms for selling handmade items online. Do your research, get to know what's best for you. Gussy Sews has a great post about Etsy vs Big Cartel and By Aimee & Co features some great posts about this topic in her eCommerce series.


How will you finance your start up?
You'll hear it time and time again -- you have to spend money to make money. It's true, but I would also say to not spend too much. If you're using some of your family's income to help start up shop (like I did) use it wisely. Buy the supplies you need, account for PayPal and shop fees, and maybe set aside a bit for advertising.

Don't go crazy! It's easy to want to buy business cards, custom packaging supplies, lots of new supplies for all kinds of products, to buy an ad spot all over the internet, and do giveaways a plenty. But from my experience, take it slow. Those are wonderful things you can add over the course of your shop as business and sales pick up.


Other things to consider:
Talk to your spouse -- they will play a role in helping to motivate and support you, set up at craft fairs, or even make necklaces (speaking from personal experience)
Open your own shop checking account
Create a budget
Explore online money management programs -- I use outright.com
Learn how to price your items
Create a giveaway budget (and don't forget cost of shipping)
Ask a few favorite bloggers to review an item

Did I miss anything? Do you have any tricks to add? Us Sashes girls are here to help if you have questions!


Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Make yourself busy with living.

There will be weeks when there is no work.

Weeks when your emails are quiet, your inbox is stagnant, your paypal account is scarily low.

It would be easy in those weeks to make yourself busy with worrying about whether or not the work will come again.  It would be easy to check all those inboxes over and over, waiting for the next order or inquiry.

But here's some advice: don't.

Instead, make yourself busy with life.  Enjoy the quiet moments, the naptimes empty of editing, the nights with your husband/your best friend/yourself with nothing pressing but good movies and good books.  Make something you haven't had time to make.  Pray for fresh ideas.  Reach out to people you want to collaborate with.

The work will come again.

Make yourself busy with living, with creating, and let Him take care of providing.

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Say it like you mean it.

There aren't many things that say "unprofessional" more loudly and clearly than a website, or blog, or etsy shop riddled with spelling mistakes and grammatical errors.

I know, I'm the one who just recently wrote about how "everyone is not a writer," but even great writers sometimes don't have a fabulous grasp of the proper use of a semi-colon.  

You might be selling gorgeous silver jewelry on your etsy site, but well-written blurbs that are descriptive and easy to understand will only boost your sales.

Here are a few tips for cleaning up your act:

  • Run spellcheck.  It's the oldest trick in the book for a reason.  Type anything you're going to put online into a Word document first, and run spellcheck before you paste it onto your site.
  • Phone a friend.  Or email one, rather.  Ask someone who you know is good with words to have a look over your site and let you know of any errors that need to be cleaned up.
  • Have a Sashes Session.  All Sashes to the Merchants sponsors get to choose one of the girls from Sashes to talk to about her respective area of expertise.  One of those (surprise!  it's me!) is all about presenting yourself through words on your blog or site.  

Become a  sponsor here.  We'd love to have you!

Monday, July 9, 2012

if you're a singer


This is my precious bff here in Indiana, Mandy. 
I am using this photo with her permission. :)


Mandy isn't an excessive twitterer or instagram user. 
She keeps a blog, but she wouldn't define herself a blogger. 
She's creative and crafty, but she doesn't run an Etsy shop. 
She isn't super into social media and she isn't creating a brand. 
All that being said, she isn't in my online world and 
yet - I think she is one of the most valuable and wise women of God I know. 


Mandy is a singer. She's a songwriter. 
She's such a crazy gifted worship leader and songwriter that she doesn't even know how gifted she is. 
She doesn't see God's grace and power inside of her and stand in awe of it. 


I am not a singer. I cannot make myself a singer. 
If I tried for 40 hours a week, I could not have a successful singing career. 
If I wrote a song, it would be cheesy. 
If I decided to be a singer, I wouldn't be honoring who God has made me to be and in some ways - I wouldn't be honoring the precious talent that my beautiful friend has been gifted with by trying to imitate it. 


The other day my precious friend and I were talking about ways we wanted the Lord to use us and ways we both felt ineffective for Him. We were essentially comparing ourselves to women with other gifts - maybe women we didn't even know, just pictures we were making up in our heads. 


Later, as I was thinking and praying on Mandy and how precious she was, the Lord smacked me in the heart with how I'd failed to encourage her. I should have grabbed her by the face and said, "GIRL! You are a singer! God has given you a sick talent and you barely recognize it anymore because it is so natural and so easily used!". She doesn't need to write a book or run a shop or have a side catering company or be a professional sewist (though she probably COULD do all of those things) because He has given her this one thing that she is INCREDIBLE at. He's given her a lot, actually - I was just smacked with that one in particular. 


It would be silly to see a worship leader or professional recording artist and say, "I'm gonna do that tomorrow! I'm just gonna wake up and start!", because it's so obviously something you have to be gifted at. The world of online media isn't like that. Everyone feels like they could, or they NEED to have a shop, a blog, a cause, a brand, a following. 
But what if everyone isn't called?
What if everyone isn't gifted? 
What if we are missing out on what God has for us
because we want to fit the mold of what He has for others? 
What if we could be eternally profitable if we'd give up the idea of 
what we think we should be doing for what we should be doing? 


When Ellen and I first dreamed up Sashes a year ago, our biggest desire was to be an encouragement to creative women that also gave them the freedom to know - they might not be supposed to run a creative business. Do you feel that freedom? 
Do you know you don't have to be a singer? 


God has gifted YOU with something.
What is it? 


Thursday, June 14, 2012

Summer Cleaning for the Craft Room


We're getting ready for some changes in our home and last night I finally got in my craft room and found the motivation to clean house.

My craft room is part shop, party hobby, part storage, part guest bedroom, so it gets quite a work out-- and quite the clutter.

But if you're like me, you definitely work better in a clean, pretty space.

Here's a few things I've done or will be doing shortly to make sure my space works the best it can in all the ways it needs to.

- Pull out all the things. If it has dust and you haven't used it since this time last year, get rid of it. If you're saving items for a new project, seriously consider the likelihood of taking on a new hobby at this time.

- Stash the small stuff. I keep all my little findings for jewelry and accessories in baby food jars. They are easy to find that way and won't go rolling away. I use my label maker to make sure everything has a home.

- Fold the fabric. I've got lots of fabric going every which way. Pull it all out and fold it in a uniform way so it can store easy and look pretty.

- Store smart. I keep less used items like seasonal fabric and my sewing machine under the bed and on the top of my closet whereas I keep things things I use every day like my jewelry tools and hot glue gun in a close drawer or shelf. No need to have everything out all the time. Head to the dollar store if you're in need of cheap boxes, baskets, or bins. A little money goes a long way in helping stay organized.

- Spread the love. If you don't see yourself sewing that or painting those, maybe give them to a friend who's looking for a new hobby. Maybe a local retirement home or preschool would benefit from your extra supplies. No need keeping things you don't need when others would get lots of joy out of creating with them.

Feeling motivated to clean yet? Do you have tips to cleaning your creative space (or staying more organized in the first place)?

And if all else fails, grab your glue gun and make a bedazzled sign that says "my craft room was clean yesterday, sorry you missed it!"

Thursday, May 31, 2012

Keeping it All Together


It is so hard to keep everything in our online worlds together. Our blog, shop, sponsorships, ideas, deadlines.

And the list always goes on.

A running goal of mine has always been to get more organized when it comes to my little blog and business, Along for the Ride. I've tried planners, to-do lists, and of course, lots of sticky notes.

And even though, during this season in my life, I feel a bit more unorganized than usual, that doesn't mean I'm going to give up my quest for intentional, meaningful, something-I-can-feel-good-about organization.

You don't have to tell me twice that women are creative folks! Here's some of my favorite handmade tools to help us keep it all together.

- Lots of great printable planners are available online. A few of my favorites are from Wild Olive, Flourishing Abode, Living Locurto, and Infarrantly Creative.

- I'm usually drowning in ideas. Get those babies down on paper with a cute notebook. Some of my favorite handmade notebooks are from Riley Blake Designs, Design Aglow, Doda's Creative Wanderings, and V and Co.

- I am a to-do list fiend. I love them! Some cute printable lists from The Complete Guide to Imperfect Homemaking, My Everything and Nothing, and A Pair of Pears.

How do you keep it all together? What ways do you stay organized?

Monday, May 21, 2012

business lady transition





Alright, Sashes girls. 
Jessi here. 


Are you getting what we're here for? 
We want to talk about Jesus and making much of Him. 
We want to talk about Proverbs 31 and the picture He gave us of a virtuous woman. 
We want to talk about creativity and how He's made us all to love creating. 
And sometimes, we want to talk to those of you pursuing creative endeavors - you bloggers, shop owners, photographers, artists, creators. 
Those of you selling your sashes. 


So here is a "business" tip for you ladies - that I'm just starting to figure out. 
Faith talked last week about making an "office", which I fully agree with. Even if it's a corner of your kitchen table or a spot in your laundry room. It helps for sure. 


I'm here to talk about what you do when you're in that office. Well, really more what happens when you come in and what happens when you go out. 


We're in a new season of family-life-small-business life in that I'm taking some actual during the week work hours. Monday, Tuesday & Thursday 1-5. I divide that time up pretty equally between my Etsy shop, blog design, my blog, the conference that you're hopefully all coming to, and just general internet correspondence. The idea is that - if I throw my little heart into work in those hours, the rest of those hours  I can be face to face and heart to heart with my kiddos and my dishes and my husband and my real life that needs my face and my heart. 


But you know what I find? 
I find that if I don't transition well into work or transition well out of work, I'm in trouble from the get-go. 
I'm thinking about home life when I'm trying to work and I'm thinking about work when I'm supposed to be done. 


So I'm learning to ease into work. 
To truly just pray and ask the Lord to honor my time. 
Make a list of what I HAVE to get accomplished. 
Make a playlist. 
Organize my work station. 
You get the gist. 


And then I work, work, work, work, work until about ten minutes before I relieve the babysitter. 
And when I've got about ten minutes left, I do the following:
Assess my list and see what I got done. 
Clean up my desk. 
Spend a minute or two praying about my time with my family and thinking over what the rest of the day should look like. 
Stretch. Literally. Cause my old lady back be getting sore when I sit in an office chair. 
Take a few deep breaths and go out into the real world. 


Your list might look super different from mine. 
Your work time might look totally different, 
But I wonder if it wouldn't help you to think through some ways you can transition
between business lady and lady lady. 


And on that note, I'm off to stretch. 
And maybe do a few jumping jacks. 
Whatever it takes, to be ready for my precious Irish triplets and their 
energy, hearts, and intense desire for apples with peanut butter. 


Love you ladies. 
God bless you. 

Friday, May 11, 2012

Homeworking How-tos: Get an Office



Ever sat down to get some work done and then been inundated with thoughts like this?

“Oooh, I just need to put some laundry on.”

“Gosh…I could use a cup of coffee.  And maybe some cookies.  Which I’ll bake from scratch.”

“I’ll just turn on General Hospital while I work. You know…in the background.”

And then, before you know it, your baby has woken up from his nap, or your husband has returned from work, and all you’ve got to show for your work time is three dozen chocolate chip cookies (not that that’s a horrible thing) and an unrivaled knowledge of the goings-on in Port Charlies (I promise I had to google where GH is set).

Working home can be a real challenge, but most of us don’t have a choice because of time, money, or the fact that we’re squeezing work in during naptimes and after bedtime.  Getting work done at home is tough, but it can be done.  I’m not yet an expert at it (and I’ve got two loads of laundry on the go right now to prove it), but I have learned a few tricks, and I want to share one of them with you today.

Ready?


Get an office.


A few months ago, I sat down to do some work on my sofa.  I realized I needed to upload a couple of photos for a project, but my camera was in our bedroom, so I went and got it, and brought it back to the sofa.

A few minutes later, I got an email asking if I could take on a project the next month, but I couldn’t remember how busy I was, so I went to the bookcase in our dining room to retrieve my calendar. 

Then, I needed a quote from someone for an article, but my phone was in my purse, so I had to walk to our front hall, dig around till I found it, and return to my sofa perch.

At the end of that day, I realized I had spent several minutes of my limited work time making trips around my house to find various items.  Why?  I didn’t have an office.

The very next day, I had my husband help me carry a desk from our bedroom to a room we were using to store our bikes.  I bought a $5 cork board, painted the edges white (cause that’s prettier), and plastered it with photos that inspired me and ideas for future blogs. I filled a cup with pens.  I stacked the books I use most often for my work on the corner of my desk.

Now, when I sit down at my desk, in my office – even though I share it with my husband’s racing bike – I know that this is my work space.  It is surrounded with things that inspire me. Everything I need is here.

I get so much more work done in my office, because that is what it was made for.

Your office could be a corner of your dining room, or a chair in your bedroom with a file box beside it.  It could be a craft table in your garage.  It doesn’t really matter.  But I think you’ll find that when you enter a space that has a purpose, you’ll feel more purposeful, too.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

five encouragements for starting.

It was so exciting to see many of y'all share during our Getting to Know You week that you are thinking about and praying about and getting ready to open up shop.

Would you like to talk about beginnings today? Here are five encouragements for starting:

1. You set the expectations. You probably feel like you aren't ready. But I'm guessing that that feeling has more to do with what you think others will expect. It took me months to open up my little shop on etsy because I was afraid I didn't have enough product or variety or fanciness for other people. Etsy is wonderful because it's low risk. You decide what your shop will be.

2. That nagging fear isn't going to go away. If you're waiting because you feel afraid, the truth is that you'll never start. Go ahead and do it anyway. Failure is an option but you define what failure is. I confess that I always default to a fear of others seeing my fail but the truth is that if I dig deeper, I'm more afraid to not try. Don't let fear be your compass.

3. Be ready to prime the pump. There are millions and millions of sellers on Etsy. At least it feels like it. What makes your shop unique is you. Do you have a blog? Share the process of opening your shop. Are you on twitter? Facebook? Post tiny peeks at what you are working on. Ask friends to talk about your shop. I always, always feel more compelled to buy from people that I have some sort of relationship with. Include your little community in your endeavor.

4. Set a date and chip away. It feels overwhelming. I know. The best way I've found to work on shop opening and updates is to set a date. And then? Work on it bit by bit. Even if I'm tired. Even if I'm overwhelmed. I try to find some tiny way I can advance toward my date.

5. Wrap it in prayer. Listen, this is the most important thing to do. God is your shield and your rear guard, the Lifter of your head. Everything. Everything points to Him. Pray about the work of your hands and ask Him to shape your heart so that it is about Him and not about you or success or what others think. God knows what you need and He has prepared it for you in His timing.

Do you want to talk more about this? Have a tip for others? Share in the comments!

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

beating the heart fog.

I woke in a fog today. 
A business fog. 
A heart fog. 
A to-do list fog. 
Rather than write something super unwise in my fog, I'll give you this. 


Here's my solution: 


I put on some red lipstick.
I'm gonna drink a little coffee.
And I'm gonna ask our sweet sovereign God for a to-do list.
First, for His presence.
Then, for His to-do list.

How about you, sweet Sashes gals?
What do you do in a fog? 

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

a professional tip from The Tiny Twig - Evernote!

We are so thankful to have a tip from a pretty professional blogger that we LOVE, Hayley from The Tiny Twig. She doesn't JUST have a fabulous blog (The Tiny Twig), she also has just written a wonderful e-book that we highly suggest (No Brainer Wardrobe) and you can find her on twitter too! Enjoy! 



As my blog has entered its second year of existence, I have transitioned from a hobbyist blogger to a part-time professional blogger. This has, more than anything, demanded more organization. If you know me, my idea of organization looks like this.



I quickly realized that piles were not going to help me grow my platform online. Too many things were falling through the cracks, I was unable to visualize a project from start to finish, and really it was just hard to keep all of my worlds and my responsibilities straight.
So, about a year ago I started using Evernote as my "organize all things" solution. I have made my life far more paperless because of this. It is free in it's most basic iteration, which thus far has been all I've needed.

part of my Evernote

I use it to keep track of all the random recipes I collect on scraps of paper, disclosed by friends after a particularly great meal. I use it to brainstorm blog post ideas, eBook ideas, and the like. I use it to keep track of new revenue streams. I fill a notebook with research if I have an especially complex post coming up. I have a notebook particularly dedicated to snippets of CSS or HTML code that I don't want to forget. You name it, I probably have an Evernote notebook for it.

Evernote is one of those applications that you can barely scratch the surface and still have a really fantastic service...or you can plumb the depths and eek out every ounce of productivity magic. Leadership blogger (a favorite of mine) Michael Hyatt has a whole slew of posts about Evernote. He is actually on the Evernote team now, he is that devoted.

A great feature of Evernote is the web-clipper, which allows you to clip bits and pieces of websites or blogs directly into Evernote. You can then make notes about that clipping. This is completed most easily through a browser extension.

This can almost serve as a private Pinboard (a la Pinterest). You know, those ideas that are really good, but you don't want everyone saying "oh yeah! I saw that on Pinterest!".
The brilliant part of Evernote is it is virtually a blank slate. Just like a collection of hard copy notebooks--they can be filled with anything. Love notes to lecture notes. Recipes to receipts. You can scan documents into Evernote and make your office paperless. You can keep important documents for tax time ready at any time.

One thing I love about Evernote is they have a desktop app and mobile apps. The information is synced automatically, so I can access those recipes when I'm at the grocery. Or, I can look at the measurements I have when I'm out looking at real estate. Everything within Evernote is also searchable. Can you imagine that? Everything from your brain, your business, and your life--backed up, searchable, and sharable? It is revolutionary, especially for women balancing family along with creative pursuits.
I would encourage you to take a look at Evernote and see how you can weave it into your workflow. Do not be surprised if you get sucked in to Googling all the ways to use it. And also, don't be surprised if the way you use it is completely different from me! I think that's the part I like best about Evernote. They provided the tool and said, here! Figure out what you want to do with it!

Monday, January 9, 2012

on making goals

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On Saturday I'll be running my first half marathon. I feel proud and silly and my body hates me right now. But I'm doing it. Little by little I've trained my body to be able to go longer distances.

I was thinking about all of you. Especially those of you who have written that you'd like to do something risky. Something new. Open up a shop. Change. Embrace new life stages. Hope.

And I was wondering. What would it look like for you? To put one foot in front of the other?

I am horrible at time management. And I'm horrible at goals. I really am. I fail at most of them. I'll probably fail at more this year than I'll achieve.

But, this time there have been small differences.

Honestly? I usually don't share many of my goals. What if I fail? And others see it.

I risked it this time. I started with a handful of people and as I've gotten closer, I've told even more friends. I've got a small army praying for Saturday. I've had boundless encouragement along the way.

And instead of keeping my goal really big and overwhelming so that I avoided and put off, I focused on the small steps. What small thing can I do today?

I've found that my battles are often won and lost in the small things. If I'm faithful there then I can take another step.

Let's end here for today: goals are nice and steps are important but abiding is the key. Good fruit and growth make their way in our lives when we are rooted in Christ.

What about you? Do you have a small tip for making a big goal seem closer?


Wednesday, December 14, 2011

life in between perfection and failure.

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This is the season. The season of twinkle lights and parties and baking and list making. One last hurrah and then we start all fresh and new. Our Savior's birth calls us in.

It's also the season I feel most inadequate. I just started Christmas shopping on Monday. And we're busier than I want us to be. And I'll never be caught up on ironing. And I've worked so hard that I'm worn out and heavy with the things I've neglected.

Sometimes it takes living in the tension, an idea Jessi's been ministering to me. Life is choices. We can't be all to all. Here are three things to consider to make living in the tension a possibility:

1. Change your expectations. You can't be the best wife, mother, worker, housekeeper, friend and PTO mom all at the same time. You just can't. Those expectations? They're only making you believe that you only have to work a tiny bit harder.

2. Take joy in your weakness. Really, Christ has promised that where we are weak, He is strong. Your weaknesses? More opportunity for more of Him. You can't be perfect. But. You can be used by Him.

3. Set a date. Last Wednesday at 9 pm, I quit. :). My last show was over. No more making. I've listed a few things in my online shop and that closes on December 18th. My rest date means that I can turn in to my family and iron and catch up on dishes and laundry and actually start Christmas shopping. Maybe you can't have a rock solid rest date. Can you pick one day? One morning? Just once a week where you put work in its place?

You can't be perfect. You can't be all. But you can be used by Him.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

work when you work & don't when you don't.

my friend's peaceful morning home
Today's tip is one that I am currently trying very hard to implement myself. 
I'm a worker. 
I never knew this about myself until I started a small business. 
I knew that I wasn't extremely lazy and I knew I liked to do a good job, but in all the years I worked outside the home before having children, I enjoyed leaving work at work and I didn't enjoy staying late. 


I think there is something about starting a business that you LOVE that reveals what kind of worker you are. There are parts of running my business that feel like straight up worship (the creative parts), but most of it feels like work. Emailing, keeping track of orders, packaging, shipping. And I realized that even those things are necessarily fun, I like to do them until they're done. 


And it wasn't until I was on vacation this past week in someone else's home that I realized I've blurred almost all lines of work and life for myself. I couldn't get over how peaceful her home was in the morning. It was a lot of coffee brewing and padded toddler feet running and even cartoons and conversations. But there was no frantic emailing or package packing. 


When I started this business, I would have told you that it was ludicrous to try and work in the morning. When you have small kiddos, the small business should take a backseat during high volume and high stress hours, right? But slowly I let "emergency" work hours become the norm, and before long I was clocking in at 4:50am because someone's order just HAD to get done. 


Unfortunately, this isn't my only time I've having to steal back from my work "schedule". But I've recommitted to work like crazy when I'm supposed to be working, and do the opposite of work when I'm not supposed to be.  And I'm wondering if I'm not the only one who has muddled the lines? 


How about you? 
Is there an hour or a day that you need to steal back for your life of your family? 
Or is there a period of time where you could or should be furiously working and you're filling it with something else? 
Let's discuss, ladies. 

Thursday, November 17, 2011

tips & tricks: prune it up.



Today's post is short and sweet. 
One thing Ellen and I are both learning and talking a lot about is: pruning. 
What do we need to cut away, so the Lord can grow something more fruitful?
It's one of the hardest things to do as a businesswoman, shoot - as a woman, 
and maybe one of the most important. 


Today, my pruning is this post. 
Sashes is important to me. 
Ya'll are important to me! 
But to keep a clean house, a loved family, and a happy home - I cannot put in the work (today) that will build a really interesting, photo-filled post. 
But my prayer is that if I can prune effectively, the Lord will grow the things I can't on my own. 


There is always the temptation to do more and more, better and better and better. 
But then we come full-circle back to the realization that we don't grow these endeavors, 
He does. 


So feel the freedom & grace to prune it up today, ladies.
Cut back what isn't growing, what isn't life giving. 
And see what He will grow in it's place. 

Monday, November 14, 2011

guarding against fame

Hi. It's Monday morning. :).

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Are you feeling the pull of this week? Honestly? I was feeling it last night as my head hit the pillow, already overwhelmed with my delicately domino like to do list.

Let's start with grace. Doesn't everything start with Grace? Most people struggle with the issue of fame. Or approval. Or comparison. Or false humility. They're all the same. We want to be liked. And be successful. And be known. And, I don't know. But. I think that getting caught up in a cycle of guilt and shame and tearing ourselves down because we struggle with it isn't going to help us step into freedom. Grace is available. When we see that we've made what other people think of us an idol we can confess it and move on. And then do it again. And then do it again. Without the pity party.

How can we practically guard against the constant need to do and be more and just post once more on twitter and check our facebook fans?

1. Intentionality. For me, it all begins with asking God what He wants to speak through me. Generally, it's knowing that whatever I write about, post about is moving toward what He wants to communicate. Specifically, it means considering each blog post, tweet, status update and business interaction. Does that seem overwhelming? It's not. Because "surely my boundary lines have fallen to me in pleasant places" (Psalm 16:6). I don't have to feel pressure to be someone or something else. Because I know what God's intention is for my interactions and business, I can say no. And that? Is freeing.

2. Do say no. It's ok to stop. It's ok not to post on twitter every day. It's ok to not even be on twitter. Or facebook. Or whatever new social media tool there is. It's ok because that's not what it's about. If I've sought God's intention, then I know that I don't need to feel driven about followers or retweets. Because it's about His message. Maybe you take Saturdays off. Or maybe you are feeling overwhelmed by all of this "connection." Take a day away. And I know that social media is the thing for promoting businesses and maybe you really need for yours to make money because your family depends on it. I get that. I'm just proposing that all of that is not beyond God's reach. God's desire and heart for you is stronger and more effective than any social media. Ok? So you can feel free to stop sometimes.

3. Act on putting your family first. For me, this has to be literal. If there are a few moments to work in the early morning before my family is up, I do that. If. But if not, I am really working on choosing NOT to let that pull steer me away from some good quality time with them very first thing. My family gets the first fruit. Period. That's what I'm working toward. I confess. There are days where it feels opposite. And when I get into that rut, I challenge myself not to pick up work or computer or any other thing related to business until I've had some sweet time with each of my children and with my husband. And. I try not to make that overwhelming. It might be reading a few books together. Or actually sitting down at the breakfast table instead of drinking coffee and making lunches and having the computer tucked into a corner so that I can just-get-one-more-thing-done. Some days I have to do it. You might, too. But when I don't? And I'm asking God to give me wisdom about that because there are more days when I don't than I realize. When I don't? I'm trying to stop and be literal about first fruits.
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So. What about y'all? What are some practical ways that you dethrone fame? We can't wait to hear from you!


Tuesday, November 8, 2011

tips & tricks - what mooooooves you.

Hey ladies! I am so excited for this post.
Here's why. 
You, with the creative shop. You, with the creative business. 
You, with the four kids and no time for creating. 
You, with the busy job who longingly glances at her sewing machine. 
You're all creative beings made by a creative God. 


I think I'm just starting to own the title - creative person. You might not like what I create and it might not be the best in the world, but there is something in me, that when prodded (or ignored) long enough, kind of wants to burst forth and praise the Lord and CREATE. Prints, a bad painting, a new sofa pillow arrangement, or a neatly ordered graph charting my kid's growth. I want to create because I want to be like the Creator who puts that in me, and I have a feeling you want to as well. 


But sometimes that that little image-bearing creative pulse in us need a little prodding, amen? A walk with a friend or a vivid dream or art show or a magazine or of course, pinterest. Sometimes we just need a little shake to get those creative juices pumping out. 


And for me, music is key. 
I have about five keys songs that once they are on, I want to splatter paint while I dance around the room. I want to worship through my creativity. I want to accept His gracious invitation to join Him in this beautiful process. 


So I thought today, why don't we just share some of those songs/books/pictures/websites that get our fingers twitching and our hearts thumpin. I'm going to simply share a few songs, but I cannot WAIT to hear all your inspiration sources. 


And you lady, sitting behind her laptop, SWEARING she's not creative. Why don't you read through the comments and see what He does in you? Maybe just maybe you're more like Him than you thought. :)


Adele: set fire to the rain

Enter the Worship Circle: Improv

Christina Perri: Arms

Thursday, November 3, 2011

take risks.


Flip that around. If you have a spirit of timidity, God has not given it to you. Something about hearing it in the reverse order always catches me. The first time I heard someone say it that way? Instant tears.

Why? Because I've always struggled with timidity, shrinking back. I think it's because I've spent most of my life trying to hide away my weaknesses and muscle up my strengths.

But Christ says that where we are weak, He is strong. And I've been challenged in that lately. What if I became willing to offer up my weaknesses, too?

Shrinking back negates taking risks. But. I have to tell you something. Risks are essential. If you want to grow your business, your ministry, your dependence? Risk.

What if we were about taking intentional risks? Not all willy-nilly. Just intentional and surrendered risking after the will of God.

Are you afraid to start? Do it.

Are you shrinking back from asking for help? Do it.

Are you afraid of people? Meet them.

Are you holding on to safety nets? What ifs? Drop them.

Jump in.

What's the worst that can happen? You're going to fail some. But. When you are weak, He is strong.

Will you take that risk you've been avoiding and then? Then? Please! Share it here? I know it's hard to be vulnerable. I know it. But, will you do it anyway?